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The love you give

all year through

and all the thoughtful

things you do,

are the reason that

this special wish

holds so much

love for you.

If someone brings you happiness

and makes each day worthwhile, and

fills your heart with deep content

and teches it to smile, if someone’s

voice and laugh and touch, are all

you are dreaming of, you have

the greatest gift in life, the

perfect gift of love, sweetheart,

you are all this to me, and more, on

my life’s coast, you are the shore.

I Love You

The things that used to seem so important

Getting ahead, fitting in winning

Don’t worry me anymore

I know that family and friends are

What really matter,

And our life, our lov

Is the most important thing

In the world to me

I love you.

Human being is in constant need of appreciation and expression of love. This may not mean to burden yourself with how to do it but probably your little acts of kindness can best convey that you understand your beloved……-three little words but with very strong and deep meanings attached to it. A research reveals that saying the three magic words twice a day to your partner helps you maintain a healthy relationship with him. But do we really do that? In our daily course of life we often forget to tell him how special and important he is. Every human being is in constant need of appreciation and expression of love. This may not mean to burden yourself with how to do it but probably your little acts of kindness can best convey that you understand your husband. To put it in Ronan Keating’s words, “You say it best… when you say nothing at all.” This can make relationship work better with deeper love and sense of togetherness.
Here are some exciting tokens of devotions which require no shopping at all!

Give him space
Don’t be pushy! Men need some time for themselves so that they can indulge in the environment of home. The whole day at work is enough to exhaust them, not to forget the traffic of the city. It’s your job to give him relaxation. If you have a lot of questions for him, just hold them for the moment. Don’t start inquiring about why is he late? What did he eat for lunch? Why didn’t he pick up your call? This can be really infuriating. Welcome him with a smile, let him breathe for a while and try to have short and sweet conversations. Don’t worry, your questions can wait for the later hours of the night.
Give him your ear Who doesn’t want some extra attention in this world? Trust me, men are more sensitive towards it. So when your man is sharing something, irrespective how unimportant it is, forget whatever chore you are doing and listen to him. Men feel ignored when you talk to them while doing some other work. Sometimes it may include how evil his boss is or what new projects he is working on; you may not understand any of his professional terms but still try to show interest. Just remember, his little conversations will make him feel close to you and there will be a strong connection between the two of you.

Give him guy time
You maybe the best friend of your husband but still one day or the other he will miss the time he spent with his friends. They usually drift apart from a lot of their male friends after marriage but they still like to hang out and have fun. You can arrange small hang out plans with some of his close friends or your own family. It is not advised to go out everyday but once a week or fortnight will do the job as well.
Give him what he wants Every wife knows what his husband wants so try to fulfill his demands before time. You can set his closet before it gets messier, give him a cup of tea when he is tired or present him with something he really needs at that time of life. If he usually picks up the groceries but is under work stress so volunteer to take over the job for him. Your thoughtful gestures will touch him and he will feel that you have been watching him. In short, he will know that you care! This will help him forget half of his worries – that’s the power of love.

Give him your admiration
Not only women but men love admiration too. Praise them whenever and wherever necessary. The appreciation coming from you gives him extra confidence. Focus on the compliment as well. For instance, if he gets a promotion, instead of saying, “Great, we can use the extra money,” say, “Wow! they finally see how hard you’ve been working.” Your man’s self-esteem is very important, so give him some extra hero worship.

Give him his adulthood
There is a child in every man and he would love the care coming from you. You can lecture him about his eating habits but don’t – and I repeat don’t – force him to take care of himself, drive more carefully or work out his relationship with his parents or likes. Too much input makes him feel guilty and harped on and he will probably back fire. Stop trying to control all his acts and let him learn from his mistakes. Help him stand on his feet again and be there when he needs you. Be more of a partner than a mother to him. This way he will have his dignity intact and will value you more for being there in his darker times.

Give him his dreams
Listen to his dreams and realise them. A man may share the wildest of his dreams with you but don’t let him down by communicating your negative attitude. No matter you agree with his ideas or not just don’t laugh at it. His thoughts might be connected to a brighter and better future for both of you with a larger than life outlook. Of course he is going to realise his silly thoughts one day or the other so don’t worry about that. Back him on his absurd views and he will honour your patience and love. Don’t you want the same amount of care and reverence from his side? He is sure going to give you that!

Forget-Me-Nots

Not for you the red roses of love

No the yellow roses of friendship

I send you the forget-me-nots that bloomed

In the garden of my heart

Nourished by the waters of my love

I send you this and nothing more and I know for sure

That you will keep them in the depth

Of your heat forever to stay…………….

Deception

When I was in love,

I thought it was the best

I loved and loved and loved

But, suddenly, things went wrong

I didn’t cry, I didn’t hate

But, I learnt,

“Love is a blunder

A great great blunder”

Goverining

Emotions are the emperors

In the empire of the heart

No wars, no mutiny

But revolutions!

No discussions, no principles

But decisions!

It is not that

The empire is a failure

But the emperors

Are in trouble

A prayer in the prospect of death

O Thou unknown, Al mighty Cause

Of all my hope and fear!

In whose dread presence, ere an hur

Perhaps I must appear!

If I have wander’d in those paths

Of life I ought to shun

As something, loudly in my breast

Remonstrates I have done

Thou know’s that thou hast formed me

with passions wild and strong;

And list’ning to their witching voice

Has often led me wrong

Where human weakness has come short

or frailty sept aside

Do Thou, Add-Good_for such Thou art

In shades of darkness hide

Where with intention I have heard

No other plea I have

But, Thou art good; and goodness still

Delighteth to forgive

Encounter

I was just leaving the book shop

When I descried

Someone familliar in the distance

My old flame

My heart’s deepest obsession

Amid the hive of commuters

Walking back and forth

As the lovely apparition

Was nearing me

I blinked quite a few times

Woundering if I was having a reverie

Before I was certain

That it was my lovely lotus herself!

For a pleasurable fleeting second

Her eyes met mine

Filling my mind

With magnificent memories from the past

Before she broke the spell

By averting her eyes

And sauntering past me

As if totally mindless of the presence

Of me, her poor, persistent wooer;

Yet, I caught a glimpse

Of her lovely, fair face

Which had never ceased to enthral me

Despite the problems

We’d had in the past

And felt the flame of passion

Re-kindle itself

In my heart

As I savoured the moment!

The Clue

When I called you

By your full name

I saw you give a swift start

And watched in glee

The delightful astonishment

Mirrored on your face

“How did you get to know

My full name??”

“He who seeks shall find it!”

I quipped like a preacher

Wondering whether you had caught my clue

And the other meaning

Of what I had just so simply said

You grinned delight

Like an impressionable little girl

Just as your eloquent eyes told mine

“I caught your clue, my dear mad boy

I know what it exactly meant!”

To Sir with Love

You were my Sir and

I was your favourite student

It was a memorable day in my life

The day you came to my life

3rd of August 1986

I still can remember the loving way

You looked at me

Day by day you became closer

To my heart

I gradually loved with all my heart

Which ended in a nervous breakdown

I sacrificed my whole life for you

Where no other girl did for you

Which you never understood

When you approached me I ignored

You not because I didn’t love you

But because I was shy

You showed your love in various ways

In 1986, 1987 and 1988

Which I didn’t respond

Now I am single again

Dear are you still feeling the

Same about me…….?

I still have the red rose you gave me

If you still care, dear

I’ll be waiting for you

Life and love

Life is a rapid waterfall

Love is a wave on it

Some times it gives a tear

When it both combines

We’ll be feeling happiness

Rather than saddness

You came into my sight, I was just confused….

You said “I Love You”. I was just shocked……..

In return, I gave my heart, Whole life, for you and forever…….

months passed so fast… I closed my eyes….

Because I wanted to feel, The caring, sharing and So much of love…

I got from you, Always and Everywhere…….

One day you told me, You have a “Family”And not to bother you….

You wanted to throw away…… Everything…..in a second,

My love…..my life, For you and your “Family.”

I opened my eyes…….and saw the real face……..

Of yours and your love……..We were a “Family”..but that was only mine….

It was so late to realise, and never could believe……

You showed me a path, and I walked…

You didn’t hold my hand…. and I lost direction……..

But still I have something to say, That is……

You are my husband forever.

I tried to sleep, not once

But so many times,

Inside my heart, there was something,

Which really hurt me.

I was thinking so much…

And cried in silent,

But the pain didn’t go away.

My heart said, I’m going to lose something,

Which I really really,

Loved a lot,

I asked and my heart replied,

“Love and Destiny”

I whispered my heart,

“Please don’t take my life away……..”

My dear friend….

I can’t bear your silence……….

Why ??? What’s the reason ?……..

I don’t know……….

In our remembrances………

Who is staying in our hearts are very few……..

My dear friend you are a special one,

and you became the first in my list of friends……..

A friend like you is too special

great and quiet rare……….

Always you have something to

share with me……….

The friendship between you and me,

is an eternal one, I feel………..

To me you are still a golden memory………

you will be in my mind for ever and ever……………

I like to walk in the rain

Soaking – to hide my tears

I like to lost in the forest

To hide – my sad eyes

I like to hide deep in the sea

So no one – can see my bleeding heart

We two are far way

But how am I to stop loving you………………….

Neither can forget you

I love you more and more

tomorrow Coz you are my best friend

And my “Golden Moon”

Even though you are far away………….

When we are upset, disappointed, frustrated, or angry it is difficult to communicate lovingly, when negative emotions come up, we tend momentarily to lose our loving feelings of trust, caring, understanding, acceptance, appreciation and respect. At such times, even with the best intensions, talking turns into fighting. In the heat of the moment, we do not remember how to communicate in a way that works for our partner. These are the times when talking does not work. Fortunately, there is another alternative instead of verbally sharing your feelings with your partner, write him or her a letter.

After writing your letter you may no longer feel a need to talk. Instead you could become inspired to do something loving for your partner. Whether you share the feelings in your letter or you just write a letter to feel better, writing down your feelings is an important tool.